I'm not Chinese, only part. But, that doesn't matter. My parents never said they loved me. But I'm pretty sure my dad did, and my mother didn't. She was also a great liar, I didn't believe much of anything she did say. I also never looked to her for approval because I knew I would never get it. My dad and I had great times together. My mother had a great time by herself bitching and complaining. If I ever wanted to marry, I wouldn't have told them about it, it's merely polite, not necessary. If they wanted to disown me, I'd say "great", and just go on.

The film was alternately almost unbearable and very pleasant, or it would have got a higher rating. Her complaining about what her parents might or might not do was very annoying. She is a grown up in a relation with a man for eight years, highly unlikely that nothing more was going on. As she finally admitted to herself, "what difference does it make if they disown me?" None, dear, they either come to the wedding or not, not a big deal. And congratulations on your wedding.